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Date: 2009-08-26 03:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rdolivaw.livejournal.com
I am really not seeing what's bad about this arrangement, to b honest. The every other day thing sucks, but it seems like people are judging her for leaving her husband and moving in with another man, because she has a son. I don't think we have to be glued forevers to the parent of the child because there is a child.

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Date: 2009-08-26 03:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] said-by-me.livejournal.com
I don't see the issue in her moving in with another dude. I do though see a HUGE issue in stability for that kid if he is sleeping in a different place every night.

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Date: 2009-08-26 06:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rdolivaw.livejournal.com
Many children do that.

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Date: 2009-08-26 06:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] said-by-me.livejournal.com
I disagree that it makes for decent parenting when there are other options available.

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Date: 2009-08-26 06:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rdolivaw.livejournal.com
Clearly, the right thing to do here is to call her an immature whore. She is trying to keep a balance in her life. Lots of people see their children every other day, and it's not really psychologically harming. She is willing to stay over at her husband's house the days that he has him, so she'll be with the child all the time.

I love how everyone is not a lawyer, but still has this awesome legal advice for this poor woman.

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Date: 2009-08-26 06:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] said-by-me.livejournal.com
She wants him to sleep at alternating houses... there is no stability in that. None.

I never called her anything either, not sure where you seem to think I did or why you are so ardently defending her but whatev.

And yes, god forbid people give common sense advice.

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Date: 2009-08-26 06:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rdolivaw.livejournal.com
Because all the advice is judgmental and blames her. Including you. I am defending her because I have had actual real life experience helping people deal with family law issues very similar to hers, and nobody knows anything about her life, and it's pretty disgusting to judge her for that.

yes, the child will sleep in separate houses. She will spend the night with the child at his previous house. Wow. What a great and horrible thing.

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Date: 2009-08-26 06:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] said-by-me.livejournal.com
Please show me where I have judged and blamed her? She is being selfish end of story. She isn't suggesting she sleep at her former house, her post reads that the baby will switch houses nightly.

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Date: 2009-08-27 12:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drstein.livejournal.com
The issue that *I* see is that she JUST told her husband and is already moving in with some other guy? Clearly she was having an affair, and now she's going to use the child as a bargaining tool to get what she thinks she's entitled to.

Personally, I hope her husband takes her to the cleaners. :)

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Date: 2009-08-27 02:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] drstein.livejournal.com
You know it, cupcake! :P

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Date: 2009-08-27 02:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] running5k2day.livejournal.com
So glad you are still around. I have missed your witty replies.
Wait...I guess I've been sorta not around.
My excuse? Well, you see...it's so much easier to Tweet or to post on Facebook that...that....
well, I suck! That is all.
:-)
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Date: 2009-08-26 03:15 pm (UTC)

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Date: 2009-08-26 03:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amyura.livejournal.com
Excuse me, it's HOT mom. She's so hot! Because she uses Noxema and SPF on her face! You'd NEVER know she's 40!!!

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Date: 2009-08-26 06:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rdolivaw.livejournal.com
Attacking a woman's looks, classy. A+

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Date: 2009-08-26 10:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] amyura.livejournal.com
Uh, not exactly. Did you look at any of the threads circulating? Her WHOLE journal consists of posts about how hot she is and that you'd never know she was 40.

What I was attacking was her emphasis on looking hot at the expense of other stuff. If you could show me where I said there was a problem with her looks, I'd love to see it.

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Date: 2009-08-26 03:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] slinksgirl.livejournal.com
Bob and I do an every-other-day arrangement :(

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Date: 2009-08-26 03:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] said-by-me.livejournal.com
Sam is 4 though... when did you guys start that?

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Date: 2009-08-26 03:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] slinksgirl.livejournal.com
Around 4 months...though he didn't have her overnight until she was 8 months old. IDK, maybe because it is the only thing Samantha has known, we've never had an issue except when he is gone for longer periods of time, like 2 weeks. We also live 5 miles from one another.

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Date: 2009-08-26 03:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] said-by-me.livejournal.com
And maybe that is the difference. It sits bad with me to have a 2 year old go from HAI 2 parents ONE house to 3 parents and a new house everyday.

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Date: 2009-08-26 03:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/_brandnewdays/
The thing that makes no sense to me is the I don't work, we owe money big time, and I am assuming maybe incorrectly, that the place she is labeling her place was once their place that he probably still pays for and she is moving someone else in. It all seems very selfish and like someone needs a big dose of reality and maturity.

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Date: 2009-08-26 06:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rdolivaw.livejournal.com
Yeah, leaving the father of your child is very immature and selfish. Totes.

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Date: 2009-08-26 07:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/_brandnewdays/
What does totes mean?
And btw, what I said in no way translates to me thinking that someone leaving the father of your child is immature and selfish. Just commenting that the way she posted sounded like she was dealing with the situation in an immature and selfish manner.

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Date: 2009-08-26 05:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] idemandjustice.livejournal.com
Wait, if she's saying they can't afford lawyers and want to work it out themselves, why is she even posting it to law questions?

And she said her husband told her she's not going to take their kid, so I wonder if he'll fight her on it. Seems like a no-brainer to me, and from what she's said here, the husband will probably win.

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Date: 2009-08-26 11:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] devilishdestiny.livejournal.com
what a fucking cunt.

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Date: 2009-08-27 02:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] running5k2day.livejournal.com
**Yeah..that.***
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